THE DRAMA OF THE GIFTED CHILD Alice Miller
THE DRAMA OF THE GIFTED CHILD - The Search For The True Self
By Alice Miller
Date Read: August 2020
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My Mark:

A very interesting book (along with The Body Never Lies).

I never read psychology books before, not books talking about the patient's experience. Some stories are just horrific, some inspiring and they all leave you to wonder and think about how to best raise a kid, and how you can look at your own experience.

 

The Pitch:

Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided millions of readers with an answer--and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.
 
Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents' expectations and win their "love."
 
Alice Miller writes, "When I used the word 'gifted' in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb... Without this 'gift' offered us by nature, we would not have survived." But merely surviving is not enough. 
The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.